So you're thinking about huckin' everything out the window and starting over (or your partner is thinking it, but you want to be supportive).
If you have no idea where to start, no fresh way to go? Well I found this article slightly limited, but it helped the the blood flowing in the right direction.
it helps you to narrow down your style a bit so that your purchases for paint and fabric don't clash with what your likes and dislikes are. Just because a room looks good doesn't mean it feels good to you.